Are We Holding Ourselves Back?

Look, I like hiphop music, urban clothes, tattoos, and different hair types just like the next man, but come on people, there is a time and place for everything. I can't guess how many times I've been embarrassed by walking through a parking lot at Wal-mart of something, and someone drives by booming some of the most ignorant music possible. You can't be blasting shit like "What These Bitches Want from a Nigga," with families walking with their little kids. You can't show up to an interview with a Forbes company wearing ten different color weaves and your cleavage hanging out. NOOOOO, no maam, and no sir. I've heard countless times about why we get stereotyped all the time. Honestly, can some of us look in a mirror and say "Damn I can't see why they didn't hire me?" Hmmm.... we on the outside can!!! Again, I'm not judging anybody's lifestyle, because only God can judge, but damn Tyrone, and Bumqysha. We got enough problems with society, how about we try to help ourselves out a little. It's ok to have one color piece of hair. Little Ray Ray, it's cool to where your pants up with a waistline that actually fits. People lets stop blaming others, because we all know we got it bad already. Let's start helping ourselves out by trying to be grown, responsible, men and women of color. We are naturally all beautiful, we don't need anything that takes away from that.