Him: I don’t believe men are necessarily afraid to fall in love. We at times choose “NOT TOO” because we "feel" that there are so many options, so why commit to just one and miss out on a “WINNER. On the other hand, I don’t believe every chick should be considered a “legitimate option”.
Her: So why do men front like they want love?
Him: Because initially we think we’ve found the "one," but soon as a bump in the road pops up. Our mind ponder, "Man, I got plenty of women to choose from, I don’t have to accept her "short coming". Little do we no, every chick is not a “legitimate option".
Her: Or little do ya`ll know that a “BUMP,” is nothing to abandon ship about. The larger picture should always be looked at. I’m not talking about settling down with any random chick…..the chick with the 80% is who I’m talking about.
Him: So, do you believe men fear love?
Her: I think they fear deep down inside but make the excuse that there are other choices. They run to the other choices because its easier than investing time and feelings into one person. Men go for the easy, most self gratifying, quick option they can go with.
Him: Why can we as MEN “supposedly” separate emotion from sex, but fail to realize that “NOT” all chicks are legitimate options???
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I personally don't believe that ALL men are afraid of love. The whole "I could be missing out on xyz" is just something that a MAN will overcome when HE has decided that commiting is what he wants to do. Men have a craving for women, this does not all of a sudden stop just because he "gets with a chic"... he knows this, and a real man would not commit unless he was ready to fight that battle. Which some are and do on a daily basis... Unfortunately the negative is always what gets press, thus the reason CHEATERS is such a high rating show.
I do not think that it is love which prevents a man from settling down, it is his fear of rejection/failure and the aftermath of a breakup. Every man and woman NEEDS to be loved and WANT to have that ONE person he/she can depend on, because ultimately, that is what the chase is about. I'm not going to say that men who chase sex have an emotional instability, but most men have sex (just) because they don't want to deal with the "aftermath," meaning...the mess you go through when a relationship starts to go down hill. Whereas women tend to think of the BEGINNING of a relationship (going on dates, caking, playing wifey, etc.), men focus on what is tangible. That is good and bad--what is tangible can't always be seen. Faith can't be seen, it has to be felt. If you meet a woman who is an 8 on a scale of 10, it doesn't mean she isn't capable of being a 10. If you get to know her and not only do you see potential, but a willingness within her to grow...she'll be a 10+. Whatever the "bump" is, you have to analyze the person and situation for what it is and has the potential to be...not what it is compared to other people. Men need to realize that they have shortcomings too and 9 times out of 10, most women will accept them. Some women will do it because 1) they are just lonely, 2) to fill a void (very unhealthy), and 3)because they have an understanding of people and God. How does the saying go...treat people how you want to be treated? Well...its still true.
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